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What to Wear to a White Party

all white table and setting outdoors

There it is—the annual invite to that white party. Whether it’s a Hamptons soirée, a backyard rooftop bash, or your friend’s “let’s pretend we’re in St. Tropez” moment, the dress code is the same: head-to-toe white. And with it comes the annual panic: what to wear to a white party that’s both appropriate and elevated?

The thing is, white parties are tricky. You can’t rely on color to express your personality, so you have to go deeper through silhouette, texture, accessories, and most importantly, intention.

Here’s how to show up looking clean, cool, and completely unforgettable:


✦ Style Strategy: The 5 Elements of Elevated All-White

  1. Unexpected Structure: A crisp blazer dress, a sculptural peplum top, or wide-leg trousers with a slit hem adds drama without shouting.
  2. Texture Play: Combine lace, linen, satin, and mesh to create contrast. It’s all white…but never flat.
  3. One Strategic Statement Piece: Think architectural earrings, a stack of gold cuffs, or metallic sandals. Just one. It should whisper, not yell.
  4. Serendipitous Touch: Add something just for you, like a vintage brooch, a silk hair tie, or a bold manicure. Style should always leave whispers of you.
  5. Fit, Darling, Fit: The biggest white party sin? Ill-fitting white. If it pulls, bunches, or is sheer in all the wrong places, it’s a pass.

White is the canvas, not the message. You bring the message.

Need a head start? Browse everything Net-a-Porter would recommend or check the collective genius of these 25 all-white outfit ideas for men!

So, the next time you wonder what to wear to a white party, remember: it’s not about following the dress code—it’s about owning it, and doing it in a way only you can.

And that, my dear, is how you become the highlight in a sea of sameness.

xo, mo
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